The Sacred Art of Parting: Loving from Afar
Dear Healing Majestically Family,
There comes a time in every sacred journey when the soul whispers truths we’ve been too afraid to hear. These truths emerge in the stillness, in the cracks of strained conversations, and in the weight of relationships that no longer align with the rhythm of our growth. They remind us that change is inevitable in every relationship, and beautiful transformation often comes with a cost: the shedding of what no longer serves us.
As we grow spiritually, emotionally, and mentally, it's natural that even the most intimate connections may start to feel different. Relationships with family members, childhood friends, or those who once seemed inseparable may now feel strained, heavy, or distant. This is a part of our journey, and it's okay to acknowledge this shift. It's not a failure, but a sign of our growth and evolution.
Like the melody of Kenny Rogers’ song, “The Gambler,” life teaches us that we must “know when to hold ‘em, know when to fold ‘em.” In love, as in life, there is wisdom in recognizing when parting ways is the only way to preserve the sanctity of what remains.
It is not our job to mediate others' unspoken wounds, bear the weight of their unhealed choices, or become the social worker in their story. To love someone deeply does not mean to carry their burdens or fix what only they can mend. True love—sacred love—sometimes looks like stepping back, allowing space for reflection, and honoring their journey without entangling it with your own.
When we choose to love from afar, it is not abandonment. It is a radical act of trust: trust in their ability to take stock of their lives, take responsibility for their choices, and rise into their own growth. It is a testament to the strength of their boundaries and, importantly, the depth of your own self-love.
Parting ways does not mean closing the door to love. Instead, it opens the door to new connections that resonate with the person you are becoming. It is a clearing, a sacred release, making room for relationships that nurture, uplift, and align with your highest self.
Remember, dear one, that you will lose and gain some in this sacred dance of life. This is not a failure but a testament to your courage to grow, evolve, and honor your divine purpose. Your courage in the face of change is a beautiful thing, and it is what will guide you through this process.
So, if you find yourself at a crossroads, where relationships feel strained and parting ways feels like the only path forward, honor that truth. Let your heart release with grace, knowing that love transcends proximity.
Remember, you are not alone in this sacred unfolding. Trust the process, honor your growth, and hold space for the beauty of what is yet to come. Embracing change and growth is a courageous act, and it will lead you to new, fulfilling connections.
In healing and empowerment,
Sherley Delia, M.A.
Founder, Healing Majestically Consultancy
